Yesterday I think my mother is not a women of her words.
Today I think my younger sister is a fucking brat who has not sense of responsibility.
Its all parents’ wish to see their kids scoring well for exams right? I mean, in this world, age and time (in Singapore context), no parents want their kids to suffer in future, wanting the best out of them.
Kids, on the other hand, thinks they’re smarter than the adults all the time just because:
1) They’re younger (more brain cells and stamina to think and react)
2) Thinks that more enthusiastic = more brainy = can outsmart the adults. NICE.
3) They think money flows like how water goes down the toilet bowl (SOME people)
I’ve know of people who
a) think they’re rich and that they’ll rather spend the rest of their lives hunting for rich guys, dreaming of wanting to be tai tai, rotting their lives away taking care of rodents that cannot be eaten
b) think they’re rich and that they’ll be rich for the rest of their lives just because their parents gives them what-family-inheritance to rot their lives away.
My sister belongs to the extreme opposite.
She thinks that she’ll burden my family with her expenses and that she wanted to do her part by saving as much money as possible for the family.
Personally, I don’t see that as a problem until it clashes with responsibility, and the adults who has kids who thinks they’re smarter than them, thinks they themselves are the smartest.
My sister, decided to save money by not having tuition and decided to study on her own. When she first had tuition (with my bf), she was “shocked” to see the amount of money my mother have to pay him for tuition. (Mind you that her PREVIOUS tutor was like 2 times more expensive than my bf’s rate)
Then she found out that her friends are having some financial difficulty, and wanted to ask my bf to tutor her friends and her as a group. That idea was eventually called off, because she was a FUCKING INDECISIVE PERSON. (SO FUCKING INDECISIVE HOW TO BE MATURE?).
“Okay, no tuition, so what?”
She didn’t paid for the 2 lessons she has taken for the past 2 months. Or rather, SHE REFUSED TO ASK MY MOTHER FOR THE FUCKING MONEY. JUST BECAUSE SHE WANTS THE TUTOR TO FORGET ABOUT THE PAYMENT, AND SO SHE CAN SAVE MONEY.
WTF is this? You want to forgo tuition, its your problem (since you wanna save money). HOW ABOUT THE PEOPLE WHO WASTED 2 HOURS for 2 WEEKS JUST TO SIT WITH YOU AND ACCOMPANY YOU TO STUDY? WHERE IS THE FUCKING RESPONSIBILITY OF PAYING PEOPLE WHEN YOU PROMISED THEM?!?!?
THIS IS DAMN FUCKING ABSURD. Worst still, during the 3rd lesson (when she decided to stop tuition), SHE STILL GOT THE CHEEK TO GO INTO HER ROOM, LOCK THE DOOR, AND CRY. WHILE the tutor was waiting for her patiently for 2 hours WAITING FOR HER. (He didn’t even charge that!)
WTF you tell me?
EVERYTIME I reminded her to tell mummy, she will always say “ok…”, and nothing comes out from her fucking mouth except bullshit.
So when I reminded her just now (this time with a firm voice), she kept quiet, then walked out of the room, and THREW me a $50 note. YES she THREW it AT MY FACE.
Funny thing, when my mummy came back, she hinted to my mother that SHE had to pay my bf money BECAUSE my BF WANTED THE MONEY.
MY MOTHER STILL GOT THE CHEEK TO SAY “他又跟你要錢是嗎？”
PLEASE LA my dear sister, if you want pay the fees, go ahead, I won’t stop you, but you must remember. YOU GOT NO QUALIFICATIONS, NO WORKING EXPERIENCE, NO JOBS, NO MONEY, and you wanted to pay?
DON’T BE STUPID. SERIOUSLY.
AND DON’T EVEN TRY TO ACT INNOCENT IN FRONT OF MUM. AS IF YOU’RE FORCED TO DO IT.
YOU TRY NOT PAYING GOVERNMENT TAX or PHONE BILL LOR. I shall see if the government and telecom will FORGET about it or not.
Update: My sister planning to bake cake for her friend but not mine and ignores me completely.. I’m SO happy to have a sister like that..
